"unch neech"

do we al remember this very game of our childhood...............n the amazing pleasure dat it gave .(@least me)........i wud be very selective regarding the place to choose during my turn of being the den....i had always preferred "neech" to be 'my defined area' , as it covered the greater area of playing region.n this wud help me to catch hold off other playmates easily.......
i feel that the politicians today hav also been too much impressed by the same game of "unch neech".... the present scenario in uttar pradesh presents a similar picture to my mind.politicians hav clearly DEFINED their regions.... distinctions hav been made on the basis of cast just to play the game of vote- bank. Whenever their political mates dare to enter DEFINED political grnd he or she is caught hold off, n has to face the repurcusions.... if a finger is pointed on any individual ....the issue fumes over the entire community represnted by that particular leader........ each leader is trying to prove himself completely devoted to public . n the path chosen to prove so is by ridiculing the leader of opposition.......
leaving U.P in its utmost deteriorated condition........in this blame game U.P is suffering n so r its ppl
i can share my xperience.... in kanpur it self u hav 6 - 8 hrs of daily power cuts.....no means of employment for educated strata staying here.since last 20 years i myself hav nt seen much development taking place here apart from rising malls...which too hav given up against the recession.Kakadeo here is referred to as coaching mandi (engineering) bt apart from getting these fledglings gettng selected in various engineering colleges of the city itself,the city can be of no more help...........to be cont.....

you are as happy as u choose to be

this particular discourse i heard on television and was very much impressed by it ......so jst wantd to share it with more people!!!!!!!

i'm not very religious .in fact i think among al religions and spirituality, we need to choose spirituality.having said that, i do believe in God.i think spirituality is the journey to fill the gap between u n ur God.which is y we r all always on the path of spirituality, never actually spiritual.
i hav never been a ritualist. i believe rituals only cause troubles.i pray 4 only few mins.. i refuse to believe that if u pray 4 sumthng, u will get it. i think wat works bettr is wen u toil hard and strive to reach ur goal. im nt a kind of person who cries over wat i dont hav. i d rather be happy wid wat i hav.
i am a realist. i dont believe that ny one can solve ur problems 4 u.you need to tackle dem head on and find a solution. and if there is no way out, move on. there is no point worrying urself over sumthng that u know wont get sorted out.
i believe one shud be in control of their own minds. no amount of lucky charms n talismans can help a person. destiny is wat it is . you cant fight it. just accept wat life gives u n go wid the flow.
wen i think of karma, i wonder wat it really means. be nice to people on ur way up. you will meet dem on ur way down.

on the path less trodden

making fast n choosing the easy way out,
can never make u best as much as u shout
To be the winner the path to be tread,
Is not as easy as having ur bread.

Following the crowd doesnt give distinction
accepting this fact needs retrospection.
Newton ,Archimedes stud from rest as xceptions
adroits like them therefore won appreciation.

the path u design is for u to pave,
facing boldly the striking waves.
shortcuts are obvious paths for knaves
between the shortcut n real path donot rave.

the obstructions in the way are bent to arrive,
depends on ur willpower how u thrive.
Once u have given upits hard to strive
if ur determined winning is five to five.

to papa

serenity borne on ur visage is as old as me
its coz is processing the person i be

the efforts u hav put in n out
will lose value if i talk about

dayz when i babbled on my way from school
n when as teenager i played the fool

u appreciated my less appreciable works,
in times of crisis they served as perks

loving ,caring n at times strict,
solving out mama's n my conflicts.

u guided me,n by me stud
n tried to un'stnd me as far as u cud

believing in my beliefs u helpd me grow.
even if my idea raised other's brow

discipline infused ,as part of upbringing
acted as support system by hinging

seemigly calm but lots to worry.....?
even then answering eaach of my query.

i wonder if as responsible as u i cud be!
as active to work with pain in the knee.

managing everything at our ease
so dat i stay happy n glee.

without expectation of any reward,
u made me the most proud ward.